Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Bridezilla Anyone?

Yes, Bridezilla, the hit TV show on the WE Channel is back again! I can't say I'm that excited to see it but, I just have to watch it. I find it so unbelievable that people act so awful toward the people that they consider to be important to them. Because think about it, they treat their friends, which are often their bridesmaids, their family, and their future husbands like trash.

It's very important to remember that although your wedding is the most important day of your life, it doesn't give you the right to treat your friends and family with anything less than respect. There is one thing that I've noticed from watching the shows, the brides never have a planner which is probably the reason why they are so ridiculously stressed out.

If you're getting married and you feel that Bridezilla is about to bite you on your neck, here are a couple of things to think about. It may help!

1) Get organized. Whether you enlist the help of a professional to help you with your day or you get your aunt to assist you, you have to have it together. Planning your wedding takes a lot of time and if you're organized it makes your life a lot easier.

2) Understand that although this is probably going to be the most memorable day of your life, this is the beginning of your life as a married couple. Make your wedding day beautiful and memorable, but remember it's just the event before the BIG EVENT, your marriage! Remember, he wants to enjoy the day also. It is his day too!

(One last one, I said a few although I could probably make a list of 20 things! )

3) A lot of times your friends come from near and far and they spend a lot of money to stand next to you while you say "I do". Make them feel appreciated. Believe me, this may be the last time for awhile that you'll get together with all of your close girlfriends again. (I haven't been in the same room with all of mine since my wedding 5 years ago.)

Enjoy planning your wedding! Remember your wedding only lasts for one day, try to make it a beautiful memory for everyone!!

1 comment:

Apryl Plummer said...

I can honestly say I have never seen that show but I have heard a lot about it. Those tips that you gave are wonderful and brides need to remember each one of them!!